What to Wear as a Bride for a Same-Sex Wedding: A Complete Style Guide
Celebrate Your Love at a gay wedding with Confidence and Style
Your same sex wedding day is one of the most meaningful moments of your life—a celebration of love, identity, and unity. For same-sex couples, especially women, the beauty of modern weddings lies in the freedom to express who you are without the constraints of outdated traditions. Whether you’re planning a coordinated look with your partner or keeping your outfits a surprise, the most important thing is to wear something that makes you feel confident, radiant, and truly yourself.
At Freja Designer Dressmaking, we’ve had the joy of working with many same-sex couples, helping them create outfits that reflect their personalities, values, and love stories. This guide is here to inspire and empower you with ideas, styling tips, and real-life examples to help you shine on your big day.
Same-Sex Wedding Fashion: Breaking the Mould
No Rules, Just You
One of the most liberating aspects of same-sex weddings is the opportunity to redefine what bridal fashion means. There’s no “right” way to dress—only what feels right for you. Whether you envision yourself in a flowing gown, a sharply tailored suit, or something unique, your outfit should reflect your identity and make you feel amazing.
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Two Brides, One Vision (or Two!)
Some couples choose to coordinate their looks, while others embrace contrast. Both approaches can be stunning:
- Coordinated but not identical: Choose a shared colour palette, fabric, or theme to create visual harmony without matching exactly.
- Contrasting styles: One bride in a romantic lace gown and the other in a sleek jumpsuit or tuxedo-style dress? Breathtaking!
- Custom couture: Think outside the box with a structured bridal bodice, and a dramatic skirt or harem pants or pair traditional bridal pieces with a blazer, or a gown with unexpected tailoring.
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Bridal Outfit Ideas for Same-Sex Weddings
1. Classic with a Twist
Many same-sex brides love incorporating traditional bridal elements—like lace, tulle, or covered buttons—but with a modern edge. A lace gown with a plunging neckline, or a classic silhouette in an unexpected colour like blush or champagne or even strong colours, can feel both timeless and fresh.
2. Tailored Elegance
Tailoring is transformative and often underutilised in bridal fashion for women. A well-fitted suit, blazer, or waistcoat can be just as impactful as a gown:
- Bridal suits: Opt for soft detailing like satin lapels, lace insets, or pearl buttons.
- Tuxedo-style dresses or suits: Structured yet feminine, these are perfect for brides who want a balance of power and elegance.
- Jumpsuits in all variations. Narrow legs, wide legs, fitted tops loose tops. Great special garment to wear to a wedding
- Mix and match: Pair a tailored jacket with a flowing skirt or wide-leg trousers for a look that’s uniquely yours.Madhouse weddings
3. Play with Fabrics and Textures
Layering different fabrics adds depth and personality to your outfit. Some of our favourite combinations include:
- Different types of silk with lace
- Brocade with tulle
- Organza with satin
- Softer fluid fabrics such as silk chiffons and silk georgettes.
These textures not only look beautiful but also feel luxurious and comfortable throughout the day.
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Personal Touches That Tell Your Story
Accessories That Speak Volumes
Accessories are a powerful way to express your personality and add meaning to your look:
- Statement headpieces: From floral crowns to crystal tiaras, these can elevate your entire outfit.
- Bold shoes: Colored heels, patterned flats, or even funky trainers with rainbow laces can add a playful twist.
- Jewellery with significance: Family heirlooms, custom pieces, or matching bracelets can symbolise your bond.
- Tartan accents: We love incorporating tartan for a nod to Scottish heritage with a modern edge.
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Fun and Flair
Many of the same-sex weddings we’ve styled have included a “fun element” in the outfits—something unexpected that brings joy:
- Animal-themed accessories for a wedding at the zoo
- Rainbow details hidden in linings or embroidery
- Coordinated but quirky pocket squares or socks
These touches make your outfit feel personal and memorable.
Behind the Scenes: Coordinating Looks
In several weddings we’ve worked on, we’ve had the unique privilege of being the only people who knew what both brides were wearing. This allowed us to subtly coordinate their looks, ensuring they complemented each other beautifully without spoiling the surprise. Whether it’s matching textures, echoing colours, or aligning silhouettes, this behind-the-scenes magic can make your photos and memories even more special.
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Guest Style Guide: What to Wear to a Same-Sex Wedding
Same-sex weddings often break away from tradition and lean into creativity, individuality, and fun. As a guest, your outfit can reflect that same energy. Here are some ideas to inspire your look:
For Women
- Chic jumpsuits: Sleek, stylish, and perfect for dancing.
- Tea-length or midi dresses: Festive and flattering for all body types.
- Trousers with flair: Wide-leg pants paired with an embellished top or blazer.
- Feminine suits: Add a bold accessory or a pop of colour for a celebratory vibe.
The Power of Tailoring
Whether you’re a bride or a guest, tailoring can elevate your outfit from good to unforgettable. A perfectly fitted garment enhances your confidence and ensures comfort throughout the day. Don’t underestimate the impact of:
- A blazer that hugs in all the right places
- Trousers that are hemmed to perfection
- A dress that fits like a glove
Tailoring is especially important for non-traditional outfits, where off-the-rack options may not offer the right fit or feel.
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Confidence Is the Best Outfit
At the heart of every wedding outfit is one essential ingredient: confidence. Whether you’re walking down the aisle, standing beside your partner, or raising a glass in celebration, you deserve to feel radiant, empowered, and completely yourself.
Your outfit should reflect your identity, your love story, and your vision for the day. Don’t feel pressured to follow trends or traditions that don’t resonate with you. Instead, focus on what makes you feel beautiful, comfortable, and celebrated.
Final Thoughts: Your Love, Your Day, Your Way
Same sex weddings are a celebration of authenticity, creativity, and love. When two women marry, there’s double the opportunity for beauty, expression, and personal style. Whether that means two gowns, two suits, or something entirely unique, your wedding day should reflect your journey—not someone else’s expectations.
At Freja Designer Dressmaking, we’re passionate about helping couples bring their vision to life. From bespoke bridal gowns to custom-tailored suits, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
Ready to Create Your Dream Look?
If you’re planning your same-sex wedding and want a look that’s as unique as your love story, we’d love to help. Whether you’re dreaming of a one-of-a-kind gown, a tailored bridal suit, or something completely unexpected, we’re here to make it happen.
Let’s create something unforgettable—together.
